Begin with whatever touch your dog comfortably tolerates and reward to start building positive associations.
Start Under Threshold
Coordinate pets and rubs with things your dog already finds reassuring like favorite toys and calming baby talk
Pair with Pleasure
If your dog recoils or moves away, don't force interactions. Pause and try again later less directly.
Respect Boundaries
Initially lure with irresistible special treats while handling so your touch predicts wonderful things.
Recruit High Value Food
Say "Touch!" when petting so good feelings get associated with a distinct word.
Add Cues
Let your dog freely move toward your inviting petting hand instead of feeling trapped with cornered face-on handling.
Empower Choice
Ensure ears are relaxed, mouth soft, tail and body loose rather than tense during sessions.
Watch Body Language